Matthew (CJ) Gainey

Introduction: Not Controlling the Environment If I am honest to the reader, I have not always grasped the concept of controlling the environment in my home. In the tapestry of my life, my home served as both sanctuary and battleground, where I waged wars against external elements and internal struggles alike. My challenge still lies […]

Dear Husbands, Let me make this short, sweet, and to the point… In a world where respect and understanding are fundamental to healthy relationships, the language we use towards our loved ones holds immense significance. Too often, husbands inadvertently undermine the emotions of their loved ones by negating or dismissing their feelings—not realizing our words

In the journey of marriage, embracing the 5 Biblical roles of a husband can strengthen the foundation of a marriage. The Bible offers valuable insights into the responsibilities of a husband, outlining five essential roles that contribute to a fulfilling and God-centered marriage. As I reflect on my upbringing, I’m grateful that for the love

I have been married to my wife for 11 years. It started out great but went sour quickly. The status of my marriage was very unhealthy and on the brink of divorce, and throughout the hustle of daily life, I found myself constantly pointing out my wife’s shortcomings, oblivious to the cracks forming in our

The Vulnerability Introduction Proverbs 18:21 “The Tongue Has the Power of Life & Death, and Those Who Love It Will Eat Its Fruit.” It was year five in our marriage, and we were sitting in our first counseling session when I first heard the terms “minimizer and maximizer.” In most relationships, there is a minimizer

The decision to separate often carries profound implications. It is a path that diverges, leaving couples navigating a realm of uncertainties. Surprisingly, amidst the complexity, a glimmer of hope exists – statistics indicate that a notable 10 to 15% of separated married couples find their way back to reconciliation (Click Link Here). In the complicated

“Conquering Obstacles: Breaking Free from What Holds you Back!” Matthew 17: 20 He said to them, “Because of your little faith. For truly, I say to you, if you have a faith like a grain of mustard seed, you will say to this mountain, ‘move from here to there,’ and it will move, and nothing

Taking ownership of your actions is a powerful step towards personal growth and responsibility. It’s the acknowledgment that our choices have a cause & effect.